Every February 14th, stores fill with roses, chocolate, and heart-shaped everything. Social media becomes a collage of love notes, engagement rings, date nights, and sweet tributes. But beyond the gifts and glitter, what is Valentine’s Day really about? 💌 The Meaning of Valentine’s Day Valentine’s Day traces back to Saint Valentine , a priest believed to have secretly married couples when marriage was banned by the Roman emperor. Whether legend or fact, the message behind hi

Being a Black conservative in today’s political climate is exhausting in ways people refuse to acknowledge. I’ve been called a bigot , transphobic , a pedo supporter , and worse—simply because I am MAGA . Not because of something I’ve done. Not because of words I’ve said. But because of a label others decided automatically defines me. What’s even more disturbing is how often liberals feel comfortable bringing my race  into it. They assume my beliefs are invalid because I’m Bl

Im starting this blog for one reason—accountability.Not the kind that’s about perfection, but the kind that keeps you showing up even when it’s hard. This isn’t a “30 days to a new body” story. It’s a real  weight-loss journey with ups, downs, cravings, restarts, and growth. I’ve reached a point where I want more—more energy, more confidence, more consistency, and better health. I’m tired of feeling stuck in the same cycle of starting strong and burning out quietly. This time

Being a Black woman comes with assumptions.Being a woman in her late 30s comes with expectations.But being a Black, 38-year-old conservative woman ? That comes with judgment—often before I’ve even opened my mouth. I didn’t choose my political beliefs to be provocative. I didn’t wake up one day and decide to disappoint people. My values formed through life experience, faith, observation, and a deep belief in personal responsibility, freedom of thought, and accountability. Stil